People in the early stages of Alzheimer's or other types of dementia can forget what day it is or what they did yesterday. They can have trouble remembering the names of friends or everyday objects. They can also get easily confused, so that they can't follow what you're saying.
These symptoms can be annoying for friends and family. You may even think your relative or loved one is being deliberately difficult. Keep in mind that people with Alzheimer's or another type of dementia can do nothing about their state of mind, and may well be anxious about it themselves.
The problems with memory get worse over time. And they start to affect day-to-day life. For example, someone with dementia may not be able to get dressed. They simply forget what they're supposed to do and how to do it. They can also find it hard to understand what people are saying to them. Some people have difficulty reading or writing.
Doctors divide the symptoms of dementia into three groups. There are different treatments for each group of symptoms, so it's useful to know what these are.
- Problems with memory, thinking and language, such as forgetting words for things or people, or not understanding what's being said. Memory problems can lead to confusion. For example, someone with dementia might get lost in a familiar place. Or they might forget they've done something, or keep asking the same questions again and again.
- Problems with doing day-to-day things, such as getting dressed, eating and going to the bathroom. People with dementia can find it difficult to follow instructions and they can have problems using money.
- Different behavior. People with dementia can become agitated, irritable and restless. They may start pacing the room or wandering. They may shout at their family or lash out. They may also feel anxious or depressed. Or they may laugh out loud or start crying at the wrong times. Some people get delusions (imagining that something is happening when it isn't). For example, they might think somebody is trying to steal their things. Some get hallucinations (seeing or hearing things that aren't there).1
But most people with dementia don't notice they're having problems. A relative or friend may need to tell them that they keep forgetting things and suggest they see a doctor.2
If you think someone close to you could have dementia, you should make sure they see a doctor. Many of the treatments for Alzheimer's and other dementias work best when the disease is in the early stage. So, it's important not to delay.
Although the above symptoms can happen with any type of dementia, different diseases have their own features.
- Everyone who has Alzheimer's disease gets memory, thinking and language problems and has difficulty doing day-to-day things.
- But not all people with Alzheimer's disease get the behavior problems that can happen with dementia.3
- One of the first symptoms can be hallucinations (seeing things that aren't there).
- Depression and delusions are common.
- Problems with memory and confusion can come and go from day to day, or even hour to hour.4 So, one moment someone can't remember what day it is, and the next they can remember everything.
- Most people with this type of dementia also get symptoms of Parkinson's disease. They move more slowly and become rather stiff and rigid in the way they do things. People tend to shuffle along when they walk. Their hands and legs can also tremble. Because their muscles freeze, people can find it hard to make some facial expressions and they may also talk differently.
- Some people have spells when they seem to black out.
- Some people have restless nights and sleep easily during the day. Nightmares and confusion are common at night.
- If someone has dementia after a stroke, their symptoms usually start suddenly. The person may be confused and have memory problems as well as other difficulties. The problems they get depends on where in their brain the stroke happened. To learn more about strokes and the symptoms they can cause, see our pages on Stroke, emergency care.
- These symptoms can gradually get better or they can clear up with treatment. For example, if symptoms are due to a stroke that happened because a blood vessel to the brain got blocked, treatment with drugs to clear the blockage and thin the blood may also get rid of the symptoms. Controlling high blood pressure can also help. We've looked at treatments for stroke in a separate section. See What treatments work for a stroke?
- If dementia starts after lots of little strokes (called multi-infarct dementia), symptoms start slowly and get gradually worse. This can take many years.
- Doctors will try to control heart and blood problems, such as high blood pressure, to prevent any further strokes.
- With multi-infarct dementia, it's common for people to lose control of their bladder or their bowels. This is called incontinence. A continence nurse should be able to advise you about the best way to cope with this problem.
There will probably be a time when you need to think about getting help. This could be help at home or in a nursing home. These can be difficult decisions to make and you may need a lot of help to decide what's best. It's probably wise to think about these things sooner rather than later so that you'll have plenty of time to look around and make the right choice.
There are good support networks for people with dementia and their families. You may want to contact one of these to help you decide what kind of help you need, and to find out what options are available in your area.
You can get details about these organizations from the National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke. Or try your local Area Agency on Aging, which may also be able to help you get the services you need.
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- Bouchard RW, Rosser MN. Typical clinical features. In: Gauthier S. Clinical diagnosis and management of Alzheimer's disease. Martin Dunitz, London, UK; 1999.
- Eastwood R. Reisberg B. Mood and behaviour. In: Panisset M. Stern Y. Gauthier S. Clinical diagnosis and management of Alzheimer's disease. 1st edition. Martin Dunitz, London, UK; 1996.
- McKeith IG. Dementia with Lewy bodies. British Journal of Psychiatry. 2002; 180: 144-147.








