Would my child try suicide?
If children or teenagers are depressed, certain things can put them at high risk for suicide.
- Acting rashly or aggressively
- Having tried suicide before
- Having another mental health problem, such as an eating disorder
- Having been abused physically or sexually
- Having lost or been apart from a parent
- Being attracted to and having sex with someone of the same sex
- Abusing alcohol or drugs
- Having a family member who has tried suicide
- Being able to get at something they can use to kill themselves, such as a gun
- Not having any close family or friends.
- Try to talk to your child, to make them feel less alone and more hopeful.
- Make sure your child has phone numbers to use in case of an emergency.
- Lock up guns or remove them from your home. Having them around makes suicide more likely.
- Have a no-suicide contract. This is an agreement between you, your child and a doctor. Your child agrees to tell an adult and their doctor if they feel suicidal.1
- Don't leave around lots of medicines, including over-the-counter ones.
- Make an emergency action plan with your doctor to use if your child is suicidal.
- If your child starts saying they want to die or starts saying it more often, call your doctor right away.
Some drug treatments for depression have been linked to young people talking about or even trying suicide. For more, see Warning about antidepressants in children and teenagers.
Sources for the information on this page:
- Brent DA, Birmaher B. Clinical practice. Adolescent depression. New England Journal of Medicine. 2002; 347: 667-671. 12200555
- American Psychiatric Association and American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry. ParentsMedGuide. The use of medication in treating childhood and adolescent depression. Available at http://www.parentmedguide.com/parentsmedguide.htm (accessed on 3 October 2008).
- Lewinsohn PM, Rohde P, Seeley JR. Major depressive disorder in older adolescents: prevalence, risk factors, and clinical implications. Clinical Psychology Review. 1998; 18: 765-794. 9827321
This information was last updated in Oct 13, 2008
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